A little cultural awareness goes a long way. Here are everyday points international students often find useful.
Everyday etiquette
- Greetings: a nod or handshake is fine; formal occasions may involve exchanging cards with both hands.
- Gifts: small gifts are appreciated; avoid giving clocks or white flowers (associated with funerals). For more on etiquette, observe and ask.
- Dining: dishes are often shared; the host may order for the table. Try to taste everything.
- Punctuality: be on time for classes, meetings and appointments.
- Queueing and personal space: differs from some countries; stay calm and follow the crowd.
Communicating
- Learning basic Chinese phrases is hugely appreciated, even if imperfect.
- Saving face matters: avoid public confrontation; discuss issues privately and calmly.
- English levels vary; a translation app helps in shops, hospitals and offices.
Campus life
- Join international student activities and clubs — the fastest way to make friends.
- Attend orientation — it covers rules, registration and practical matters.
- Mix with both international and Chinese students; language exchange is common.
Money and favours
- “Splitting the bill” is less common in traditional settings — observe and reciprocate.
- Offering to pay can be a gesture; don’t overthink the first few times.
Useful phrases
- 你好 (hello), 谢谢 (thank you), 对不起 (sorry), 多少钱? (how much?)
Customs vary by region and generation. Stay curious, be respectful and ask when unsure.